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by Cindy K (McKinnon) Roberts
 

Updated: 06/18/2008 04:52 PM
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MULE IN MOURNING
I bought my friend’s hand-raised pony mule (Minnie Mule) as a companion to my old horse several years ago.  Unfortunately, I had to put my mare down last week at the ripe old age of 31 due to heart failure.  Minnie has proven to be a wonderful companion although does not like the vet or having her feet trimmed. (bad! bad!) She was in the pasture during the time my mare was euthanized and buried. The horse is buried in the woods where she and Minnie had their daily siestas. Minnie hangs out next to the grave but still gets out to eat and drink. I know mules are smart but do you think she is mourning?  I have another mare out in pasture across the road and wonder if I should bring her over or wait awhile.  I also have 4 goats in the pasture with Minnie but she isn’t really interested in becoming a member of their gang. Any advice?  Your book has been very helpful and entertaining!

 Thanks,  Mitchell


Hello Mitchell,

I am so sorry to hear about your horse.  You did the right thing and yes I believe mules mourn.  After a few days you may want to introduce Minnie to another companion such as a horse or another mule.  Mules are bonding creatures and it has been my experience that mules have the mental capacity to have separation issues whether it is with a human or another horse.  Thank you for your email, best of luck to you and keep in touch. 


Working with that deer-in-the-headlight-look

Hi Cindy,

   I am a first time mule owner. I have a little 5 year old Tennessee Walker Mule who is just being perfect for me…..except, if there is any contrast in color in the arena or out on the trail he will stop and not budge! At all! I know we are supposed to be patient with them, but he would stand there for five minutes and not budge. I broke a rule and yes, I did lose my temper. We were in the middle of a road and I was afraid of getting hit. So I had to hop off and DRAG him off the road! How do you deal with this? He has started stopping and not budging all the time! It is fine when we are riding with other people but now it’s to the point where I don’t want to ride him by ourselves because he stops all the time! HELP!

I am a student at an agriculture college and I am going to be using him in an equine behavior/ground work class. I will be the only mule in the class and they have never had a mule in this class before and I would love to show them what they have! I love my little mule, but I am missing the forward movement.

Carly


Hi Carly,

A round pen would be ideal for your mule.  If you have access to a round pen or small corral, you can set up different items for your mule to explore.  Colored flags and/or beach balls with color are a good start to his training.  You can get these items at the Dollar Store.  Tie the flags off inside your working area and let him explore them on his own.  When he is comfortable with this, place a beach ball in with the colored flags.  Keep adding things one at a time.  Balloons are good too.  As your mule adjusts to the colored props, saddle him and ride him around these items.  Slowly rub his body with the colored flag and give him time to adjust.  I find that TW mules tend to be a little more nervous as compared to other breeds such as Quarter mules and males tend to be more insecure.  This is not a bad thing.  Take the time and patience to work with him and he will eventually give up that "deer-in-the-headlight-look."   When he gets acquainted with his new toys, then you can use your new mule playground to play games with him and keep his mind willing and fresh.  Best wishes and thanks for your email.   Cindy K. Roberts. 


Hard To Bridle

Dear Cindy,
I have a three year old john mule that has had about five rides and is developing a habit of being hard to bridle.  What do you suggest?  Thanks very much.  Pat

Hi Pat,

I am assuming you are starting this young mule out in a snaffle.   Have a treat ready for your mule (yes I am approving treats for your mule.)  With your right hand, press down on his poll area to encourage him to drop his head down - with your left hand - reward him with the treat.  That is phase I.  Teach your mule to drop his head while applying pressure on the poll - then reward.  Next, play the finger game with him.  Go slow - rub his muzzle and slip your finger in and out of the corner of his mouth.  This takes several times of doing this -- you are desensitizing the mule to stick things in and out of his mouth.  Reward again with a treat.  Next, take the bridle (right hand on headstall at top) and apply pressure on his poll - asking him to drop his head, slide the bit in and give him a treat at the same time.  Also have the mule's teeth checked and be considerate while taking his bridle off - being careful not to bump his teeth.  Most bridling problems develop from going too fast with a mule, teeth problems, incorrect fitting headstalls, using too harsh of a bit and bumping teeth while taking off the bridle.  I did have a big mule that was reluctant to taking the bit - I soaked the bit in Apple Pucker Schnapps and he didn't mind being bridled after that.   There are no set rules to training mules - what works for one may not work for another.  Using a common sense approach while thinking on your feet will keep you in the game.   Go slow -- let me know how you are doing.  Cindy K. Roberts


How firm should I be with my sensitive mule?
 

Hi Cindy,
I really enjoyed your book, as a new mule owner I need all the advice I can get.  It's important that it comes from an mule-savvy female too.  I still have a question about the ground manners of my 2 gals.  Dixie is 7-8 year-old, my first mule and really bonded to me.  Maggie is her 16 year-old big, calm, sage buddy that I bought to keep her company, give her confidence on the trail and the perfect hubby mule.  When I am in the pasture they both want my attention. Dixie wants her massages and interferes when I try to groom Maggie or give her care.  

How firm should I be with Dixie? She is so sensitive and gets her feelings hurt easily, I swear she pouts after any kind of discipline.  When they were crowding me for hay months ago, I just tapped my new crop on the ground and she took off.  If they crowd me too much I use the side of my hand on their jaws and a firm tone.  They learn fast but I want to set the tone right without being too punitive.  Dixie is way too smart for me and I don't want to be manipulated...I am still trying to be that strong leader she really craves.  Should I continue to use the crop (not touching her) so she gets used to it?  I know what I would do with horses and Maggie (she has thick skin) but Dixie is special.
Jennifer
 


Hello Jennifer,

You are smart to recognize the sensitivity in Dixie.  You will have to test Dixie by applying the least corrective measure - if that is tapping your crop on the ground then do it.  Dixie has strong attachment to you however, you are the sheriff of that outfit and not another herd member or pasture buddy that Dixie would like to relate to.  There are times when her feelings will be hurt and by all means make up to her.   Keep setting the boundaries so that your safety is not compromised - in the long run you will be glad that you did.  Thanks for your email and let me know how your mules are doing.  


Cindy,
Wow, you are fast.  Thanks so much for the reinforcement!  I will put my badge back on and make sure my mule-posse knows they are just part of MY crew.   Keep the great advice coming.
Jennifer


 

Wants a mule pasture maintenance and entertainment

Hi Cindy
I am a 65 yo doc with a 20ac weekend farm in Mass.  My daughter had a horse and then the pasture looked very nice!  My daughter is gone now, so the horse, and I am there only on weekends.  So I want a mule year round for pasture maintenance and entertainment. not a horse because of the feeding habits and because it is quite nippy in winter.  

Water is free flowing year round, shelter is an open shed, food is free pasture  in summer, round bales in winter and grains on weekends.  Salt lick, electric fence, vet in town...that's the situation.

I'd like the mule to come for treats, take a halter for trimming and handling.  Better if I can make her pull the cart in snow and carry a load on field trips,  ride in the trailer and do light work in the field. Riding is less important - but I don't have much time to train her up.  Questions:  What should I look for?   What not?  I would not mind a big animal.  I fear their redoubtable kicks, any ways to predict them?

Fred


Hello Fred - that sure is a tall order for your first mule.  I would suggest getting a mammoth donkey. They are very entertaining to have around, friendly, easy on the terrain, smart and you can ride them and drive them. Mules tend to get independent when left out to pasture with no routine. I am concerned that it would not be a good experience for you. If you insist on having a mule to be your companion then I would look for a draft mule that is older - 15 on up. You definitely want an older animal that has been trained and knows the routine. Thanks for your email and let me know who the lucky critter is.

Cindy K. Roberts


Living Conditions

Hi Cindy ...was looking for a website that said something about hosing or washing mules ....in the attached reply regarding an inquiry I made about the living conditions of the mules at the Grand Canyon the mule
operator claimed that "Mules don't like being hosed down."   I have horses but have never been around mules. Is this true or a nonsense? Cheers  - Kate (Australia.)
 


Hello Kate,


I have read your corresponding email and thank you for having high regard  have a clean environment, properly fitted tack and a proper diet.  I do not like seeing sores on a working mule because that indicates overuse or incorrect fitting tack.  Mules are adaptable and have more stamina as  compared to horses.  They can tolerate harsh situations, however that is no excuse to impose unhealthy living conditions to any animal.  Working mules are an investment with the idea of getting a return for your money.   An ill or injured mule can not work satisfactorily under harsh conditions.  It is smart and good business sense to treat your investment well.  Mules that have not been exposed to being hosed down would not readily stand to have a water hose used on them.  They adapt to dry heat and are able to endure more stress as compared to the horse. Mules take care of their needs by rolling in the dirt.  The dust protects them from flies and it helps them to cool off.

I hope my reply has been informative and that it supports your wishes.  Thank you for keeping a watchful eye on our mules and thanks for your email. - Cindy K. Roberts


Bosal on young draft mule?

HI CINDY MY NAME IS JOEL MY WIFE JUST GAVE ME YOUR BOOK FOR CHRISTMAS.  I HAVE A YEAR AND A HALF OLD MOLLY DRAFT MULE HER DAD WAS 17 HANDS HIGH AND HER MOTHER WAS A BELGIAN DRAFT HORSE SHE IS 18 HANDS HIGH. AT THE PRESENT TIME MY MULE IS JUST OVER 16 HANDS HIGH. SHE IS MY FIRST MULE SHE JUST LOVES ME. BUT WHAT I AM WONDERING IS WOULD IT BE ALRIGHT TO START HER WITH A BOSAL. TO TRAIN HER TO RIDE.  I DON'T PLAN ON RIDING HER JUST YET. I WAS TOLD TO WAIT UNTIL SHE IS A LITTLE OLDER TO RIDE. AND HOW TALL DO YOU THINK SHE WILL GET WITH HER PARENTS BEING AS BIG AS THEY ARE. YOU HAVE A GREAT BOOK THANK YOU JOEL


 

Hi Joel,
 
I do not know your build or how much you weigh.  I have ridden (at a walk) young draft mules inside the paddock but I am not a large individual either.  You will have to be careful because you don't want to risk injury to your young mule.  The knee joints are still developing.  After closure in the knee cap then it is ok to start riding gradually while developing your routine. 
 
She is already a big girl, remember - mules don't quit developing until age 6.  I would expect her to grow easily to 17 hands and probably taller.  
If you ride with your seat and leg aids - then a bosal would work.  However, draft mules tend to work better in a bit.  I would start out with a snaffle - such as a D-ring or full cheek.   

I am glad you are enjoying Answers To Your Mule Questions - thanks and let me know how you are doing with your mule.  Cindy K. Roberts


CANNOT touch hind quarters

Hi Cindy,

  
I have 2 mules and 10 horses. Both mules were rescues. One is 4 and we have had him for 3 years. He  was almost impossible to handle when we first got him. He is a groundwork whiz now- he will back through barrels, side pass and  do anything for you EXCEPT: you CANNOT touch his hind quarters. I am the only one he will allow to halter him although he doesn't seem all that fond of me!   I wonder if he is a Hinny because he has shorter ears and looks a little different than most mules I have seen. Someone once told me that hinnies are much more difficult to work with. I have saddled him, he doesn't mind the saddle, but I am loathe to  get on an animal I can't handle all over.  I do lots of groundwork with my horses and they are a piece of cake compared to the mules!! Should I just let him be a lawn ornament? I don't think he would accept another person as a trainer. He won't let anyone else handle his head.  Any insight you can provide will be welcome.
 
Thank you so much,
Sincerely
 
T.C. Wagner, Mansfield Missouri
T.C.,

Hinnies have more horse like features to them as compared to the mule. 

As far as their disposition, in my opinion, they are not difficult to train.  Your mule/hinny was a rescue animal.  That tells me the animal was either abused and/or neglected.  It sounds like your mule/hinny was not handled very much and the little handling that he had was negative and put a lasting impression on him. 
 
Abused/neglected animals require daily handling.  More time is involved because you have to move slow and build up trust as you two get into a routine.  You have to do repetitive grooming and handling to ask more from your mule about his hindquarter issues.  You have come a long way with your mule - I wouldn't put him in the junk pile yet.  Hybrids are extremely smart.
 
Reward the mule for every positive result.  Set him up to make the right choices while working with him with instant reward of kind words and a stroke of the hand -- this will build his confidence.  Thank you for your email, Cindy K. Roberts

GIRTHING/GALLS

I HAVE SEVERAL MULES SMALL 12.5H  OLDER (1) ABOUT 30 SOMETHING.  STILL IN GOOD CONDITION AND WE RIDE HIM TRAIL RIDING. MY MOM RIDES HIM AND SHE IS 76. HIS CONFIRMATION IS NOT FOR RIDING HE PULLS A LOT NICER BUT SHE RATHER RIDE. ANY WAY, HE GALLS UP AND I HAVE TRIED ALMOST EVERYTHING, BUT I AM SURE I AM FIXING TO GET SET STRAIGHT.  I HOPE!!!!  I AM CONSIDERING THE MOHAIR GIRTHS, AGAIN.  PLEASE AND THANKS   LYNN


Hello Lynn,
 
I am glad that you are using your senior mules.  If you are not already doing so, try using a crupper to keep the saddle in place.  As far as the girthing there are a couple of things that you can do.  First try using a slick neoprene girth.  I like to sprinkle baby powder on the girth before cinching up (slowly).  Cornstarch works well too - this seems to work well on mules.  Next, look at saddles with 3 way rigging.  That way you can adjust your cinch and girth forward or back.  Thank you for your email and best wishes.  Cindy K. Roberts

YOUNG  MULE STARTED NIPPING

Hi Cindy,
I just want you to know I am not going to be bugging you all the time with questions, I want your book to help me there, but I do have a small question about how molly is acting...When I scratch what I call her "Sweet spots", she shows she loves it by "Bobbing" her head up and down, or her lower lip hangs loose and quivers, but at times she will nip me, not hard, but it startles me, and when I startle then she jumps.  It has only started happening recently and I keep an eye on her now, but like last evening she turned her head but each time
seemed to stop herself, so I don't know if this is going to continue or has ended.  What My question is, What is this she is doing, is it showing acceptance, is she trying to tell me something, or is it just a bad habit she has created during this time of her getting rubs and her back scratched by me...by the way she is not tied up during this, she is free standing and can leave at any time, but never does....

Thanks Cindy,
Scott Rong


 

Hi Scott,

Your young mule is communicating to you as a herd member.  Mules and horses relate socially as members of the herd by rubbing their heads on each other, grooming each other and giving "love bites".  However since you are not a walking chocolate bar, you cannot allow this behavior to continue.  Do not  "cuddle" your mule as this would encourage this type of behavior.  You can scratch your mule and caress her on the neck, but do not allow her to crowd you or come into your space.  Teach her to stand back about eighteen inches.  Simply push her back with a tug on the lead rope.  Now that you have been bitten, you will be prepared for your mule to make the same attempt again. Since you are no longer cuddling your mule - you are helping to eliminate
this behavior.  The moment she attempts to bite, quickly "elbow" her.  DO NOT USE YOUR HAND OR FIST.   The reason for this:  the mule will see it coming and will resort to being head shy.  Then they will be quicker to bite and retreat in the future. A jab with the elbow and move on.

Remember Scott, your mule is going to grow into a 1000 pound animal.  You  want her to be your partner and trusted mount on the trail, not a brat that you cannot control.  Spoiled mules can easily become dangerous.  Thanks for your email and keep in touch.  Cindy K. Roberts
 


TRICK TRAINING  

HI CINDY,

I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF IT IS EASY OR A GOOD IDEA TO TRY TO TRICK TRAIN MY 6 MONTH OLD MOLLY.   I JUST GOT HER A WEEK AGO.    SHE IS VERY SWEET AND HAS BONDED WITH ME.. I HAVE TRAINED MY OWN HORSES FOR TRAIL BUT NEVER A MULE.  I HAVE A WHILE FOR THAT AND I JUST WANT SOMETHING TO DO WITH HER TILL I TRAIN HER FOR TRAIL.  IF YOU THINK THIS IS A GOOD IDEA CAN YOU TELL ME A BOOK OR VIDEO TO GET??  THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME,  KAREN


Hi Karen, 
thank you for your email.  Carole Fletcher has a good book titled, "Trickonometry" that explains each trick with photos.   Keep in mind that while training your mule to do tricks, there is a thought/learning process that the mule uses.  The intro to this article is located here: http://www.everycowgirlsdream.com/learningpatterns.html
 
You will have to teach your mule when to be "on" and when to be "off". 
In other words, you will have to "scold" your mule when she wants to perform and it is not the right time or place to do so.  If you over correct her that will create problems. 
 
Treats/rewards have to be given and then minimized.  While doing this, you will have to teach your mule NOT TO ASK FOR A TREAT/REWARD. 
 
Good luck with your trick training and keep in touch.  Cindy K. Roberts

WORKING WITH RESCUED MULE

Hello,
 
I just rescued a 4/5 year old female mule from a bad living situation.  She had been boarded up in a 5'x5' chicken coop by her previous owner to keep her away from his mammoth mules because they where "beating her up".  I have no idea how long she had been in there.  She could not even stand up fully without hitting her head on the ceiling.  Right now she is skittish around people (understandably).  I was told she is trained to ride, but I want to establish a trust with her first before I even try to see what she knows.  (If she is really even trained!)  I am a horse trainer who has experience in working with abused horses...however I have never worked with a mule!  I was not ready to leave her in the situation she was in.  She is a cute little appy mule who is about 14.3  -  I am 5'11'' .  I was told she could carry me fine, however I wouldn't dream of riding a horse that was her size and as slight in build as she is.  Any insight would be greatly appreciated.  I am also going to be buying your book! Thanks!

Tam Cristman
Hello Tam,
 
First let me say, you are a remarkable and caring individual.  I am assuming that you have moved the mule to your home.  You are tall, is your height mostly in the torso or are you all legs?  What kind of build is your molly mule?  Is she stocky?  14.3 is a little shy for someone that has a large build. 
 
It will take some time to develop your relationship, I am confident that you are able to do this.  The important thing to remember is, mules are individuals.  To build confidence in your mule - set her up so she can do the task at hand successfully - reward and encouragement is the key - train her to do what she likes to do.  Perhaps she has the personality to be a trail riding mule, or a carriage mule.  I would stay away from timed - running events, as mules that have had a rough start in life are not good candidates for this.   It is important to keep her in a good family situation.   Good luck and keep in touch.  Thanks for your email.  Cindy K. Roberts

 

BIT EVASION
9-22-07
 
Dear Cindy,
 
I just got your book and I really enjoy all of the mule information. However, I have another question.  My mule is evading the bit by putting his head on his chest when I ask him to turn.  I have tried several bits including: a Tom Thumb, grazing bit, mullen mouth Pee Wee bit, and most recently a Billy Allen type bit.  I had his teeth floated and his wolf teeth removed earlier this spring.  I have tried being gentle to firm. 
 
When we begin riding he does everything right-stops, backs, and turns.  Then he decides he is not going to turn, and puts his head down to his chest.  I am assuming this is his way of saying "we are done".  I feel really out of control when he does this.  Today I decided to lunge him when he did this, and then I remounted.  I didn't want him to think we were done when he pulls this stunt.  How can I safely handle this in the saddle?  I would like to hit the trails, once this stops, and I feel like I can steer him properly. This is his only problem.
 
I look forward to hearing from you.
 
Sincerely,
Sharon- Ohio
Hi Sharon,
 
I am assuming you are riding Western from the mention of the curb bits.  Keep in mind that a mule's back is not round as compared to the horse.  The mule's back is more flat.  This makes it difficult for him to turn with ease.  I would use a snaffle such as an O ring or D ring or full cheek.  You will want to use your leg to aid your mule in turning.  Say, you want to go right.  Pick up on the right rein and pull toward the right slightly back toward your hip (not your waist).  Apply your left heel at the girth to encourage your mule to move to the right.  Use your right heel to help "balance" the right side by placing it slightly behind the girth as you tap your left heel to move his body to the right.  Are you with me?  Make sure you are not over doing smaller circle work.  It takes time to build up your mule for this type of work. 
 
Your mule will work better with praise and reward throughout his sessions.
 
I suggested a snaffle because your mule is using evasion in the western curb and that tells me he is not ready for a curb bit as of yet.  It sounds like your mule is doing nice work for you.  Keep your sessions under 30 minutes.  There will be times when your mule is very willing to work beyond 30 minutes; be sensitive to your mule and keep things positive.  
 
Let me know how things work out for you Sharon -- thanks for your email.
 
Cindy K. Roberts

IS MY MULE CONDITIONED FOR THIS RIDE?

Hi! Got another mule question for you.

 I ride my mule  on Sundays, with the exception of a trial ride or two a month. I am planning on a ride in September where the first day trail is about 17-19 miles. How can I tell if my mule is in good condition for this? I don't want to hurt him in any way. He is kept in a pasture with 3 other mules, he is a big guy , over 1100 lbs.(10 yrs old).  I have been trying to get some riding on him but the rains have kept a lot of our trails closed, although it does appear to be finally drying up.. Any advice on how to get him ready or should I not be worrying? I understand the trail is pretty flat most of the way... Thanks AGAIN, D

 

Hello D -

 
1100 lbs is a very nice size for a mule.  Ten is young for a mule and keeping your mule on pasture is good for keeping them in condition - rather than keeping her in a stall or small paddock with little or no exercise.  For this reason, I think your mule is very capable of handling 17-19 miles on your trail ride.  I am assuming your mule is not overweight and has no prior injury.  If you can, cold hose her legs after the ride and rub them down with liniment.  Ideally you will want to put her in a corral or paddock so she can walk out any soreness...this will help to keep any possible swelling from developing.  If this is not an option, wrap her legs with support bandages such as exercise/polo wraps.  There is a correct way to wrapping/bandaging your mule's legs and that is always wrap for tendon support.  I will elaborate on this:  Tendons are fibrous cords of connective tissue attaching muscle to bone, cartilage or other muscle. The  suspensory ligaments are between the two splint bones close to the back of the cannon bone.  They start close to the knee and go down to the fetlock joint, where it divides into two branches.  Each branch attaches to the corresponding sesamoid bone while some fibers combine with the common digital extensor tendon.  The suspensory ligament provides support for the fetlock joint, preventing it from extending down too far towards the ground, which would increase the risk of strains.  Under strenuous work or exercise, it would be best to wrap your mule's legs to aid in the support of the suspensory ligaments.   Always use even tension while wrapping and wrap in the direction of the ligament.  If you wrap against the direction, this defeats your purpose.  The way to remember this is, wrap the leg(s) from head to tail.  If you are on the mule's near side (left) then you wrap left to right.  If you are on the mule's off side (right) you should wrap right to left.  Mule's are athletes and are prone to injuries and strains...you are smart to be aware of your mule's atheltic condition.  
 
Let me know how she did on the ride.  Best wishes and thanks for your email.  Cindy K. Roberts

BODY CLIPPING

Hi Cynthia,

Long time reader – first time writer!  Should I clip my mule in the summer or leave him natural?  We don’t do anything crazy, just some easy trail rides once a week.  It gets pretty hot and dry here, with daytime temps in summer in 80’s and 90’s, occasional 100’s.  Rocky’s about 22 years, 16.1 hh and healthy.   p.s. He’s my first mule and I’ve only had him about 9 months.

Thanks,

 Patty in Simi Valley, CA


 

Hi Patty,
 
Thank you for your email.  It is not necessary to body clip your mule.  Mother Nature designed the mule to be very efficient with their body and hair coat.  Your mule will adjust quite well to the Rocky Mountain conditions.  I know it might be tempting to clip away, however your mule will need his coat on those chilly nights in the Rockies.  If you do body clip, take some conditioner, apply thin coats to your hands and rub into the hair.  Body clipping can produce a dryness in your mule's skin and hair coat.  Rub all over where you have clipped.  While clipping, use sharp blades, dull ones pull the hair and ouch!   When the weather does get chilly or damp, put a blanket on your mule if your mule is kept in a paddock or barn.  (Blankets get hung up in pasture fencing and are not safe to leave on.)   Thanks for writing, Cindy K. Roberts

 


FIRST TIME DONKEY PURCHASE

Hi Cindy,

I ran across your website in my hopeless search for a weanling saddle donkey. I love how you write about yourself and your adventures. I seem to have scared off every breeder I've contacted.  I never get a second email.  Perhaps I go into too much detail about how I want a donkey next year for  my 50th birthday, as the "pony" my parents neglected to get me some forty years ago. It's a good thing I'm starting early to find what will surely be the most pampered donkey in equine history. Do you have any tips about how to contain my donkey enthusiasm and approach breeders appearing to be a
normal buyer?

Linda
Rancho R Farm
 

Hi Linda, Thanks for the compliment -- I am glad you enjoy the humor side in my web site.  Yes I can help!

Attire is somewhat important when approaching a mule or donkey breeder. Don't show up on the coldest day of the year  (shows too much enthusiasm) wearing Carhart coveralls along with pink rubber insulated boots accompanied with designer ear muffs that look like a Dalmatian dog.  I think the doggy butt on one ear side and the tongue wagging from off the other ear might give off the impression that you are vulnerable and can be taken advantage of during this donkey purchase.  Just for good measure, do not
wear any clothing with donkey emblems or mule jewelry. 

Next, take a deep breath -- don't drink any caffeine that morning and role  play your conversation that will take place with the seller.  Practice on control and you probably should write down your expectations and questions for the seller ahead of time.   If you lack in self-control, take a friend with you so he  or she can pinch you back into reality.  If you are beyond hope and you cannot contain yourself while donkey shopping, perhaps you should look into a donkey broker that can do all the leg work for you.  In addition, you should do your homework by researching about the breed and checking out the breeding farms reputation.  I hope this helps and keep me updated on your birthday donkey purchase.

Sincerely - Cindy K. Roberts 


PUTTING WEIGHT ON YOUNG MULE

Hi Cindy:
Here is my question:
 

I have a mule (coming 3 yo) and I just can't seem to get her weight up...I give her 14% (protein) grain (1-2 scoops, depending on how much she wants to eat) and 1 1/2 flake of local 2 x's a day, plus she's on pasture...and she just wont put on weight, any ideas? note here: she wont eat her grain if I put oil in it, so that won't work.  She has been wormed, and she gets lots of roughage. (pasture and hay)
 
She has always been like this, nothing I try seems to work, and I'm very worried about her as she is still growing.  (Her dam was a Tennessee Walker, I'm not sure if that makes any difference.) Thanks - Lisa

Hi Lisa -

14% protein is plenty for your young mule.  Too much protein can be harmful so watch your protein numbers. When you say 1-2 scoops -  is that a large scoop of grain?  I would be careful about the amount of grain -- weigh it so you know exactly the amount that you are feeding your young mule.  Just because the mule has the ability to "take care of himself" and not over eat -- I would still monitor the grain intake.  I am curious about the hay.  Does she clean up her hay?  If you can get her to eat 2 flakes at each feeding -- that would be even better.  Grain does not actually "put weight on" a horse or mule.  It is a fuel supplement to their work schedule and activity load.  Choice hay is the best for putting weight on an animal.  I don't know where you  live -- so that too will depend on what is available in your area to feed to your young mule.  Horse and mule owners that are showing their animals like to control how much hay the animal is getting because they don't want the hay belly.  Well, guess what?  If you are exercising that animal and giving it the choice/quality hay that he or she needs -- then you're animal will not develop the big hay belly.   
 
Make sure she is getting a mineral salt block -- free access at all times.  Not white -- but mineral salt.  TN Walkers are high energy -- so I would try the extra hay -- have her teeth checked and watch her eat.  Is she dribbling or dropping food?  Nervous and watchful of others when she eats? 
 
If the hay doesn't do it -- your pasture needs to be lush and green with grass.  Your next option  is to go to your feed store and try a different brand of feed.  It may cost more but it might be what she needs.  Gradually change her over and compare your old nutrition info to the new stuff and see what happens in 2-3 weeks.  Put a tape/weight measure on her and keep track.  It is unusual to feed supplements to a mule and I would hold off from doing that and try changing over to a different brand of feed that is high quality.  If you choose to feed a supplement -- pay attention to the percentages of vitamins/minerals along with the protein content.  It is easy to overload a hybrid with too much protein, so pay attention to your regular grain ration nutritional content along with feeding any supplement.   
 
Your mule could be going through a growing "spurt" phase and that would cause her to appear lean.  Calories and nutrients are going to bone growth and mother nature may not be ready to put the weight on fast enough as you'd like.  Good luck.  Thanks for your email and let me know how this works out for you.
 
Best wishes -- Cindy K. Roberts

WHY DO MULES ROLL MORE THAN HORSES & CURL UPPER LIP

 

Hi Cindy -- We have a 3 year old Tennessee Walker mule.  My question is --- why do they roll more than horses, and also they hold up their upper lip a lot.  Do you know
 why??      Sue Wallrich


Hello Sue,
I had to think about this one.  Yes mules do role more than horses.  I believe the reason is mules tend to take care of themselves more so than horses.  I believe they roll more simply because they get so much relief and  benefit from rolling.  It might be because of the mule's conformation.   The mule's back is flatter and the neck is generally shorter and this would  make it more difficult for a mule to bend.  Horses are capable of bending
(as in lateral bend exercises) to the side to scratch an itch or nip at a fly, but if you watch a mule --  they don't have near the "flexibility" to bend at the same degree as  compared to a horse. So I believe mules prefer to role.  The mule will role to get dust in his coat  in order to help protect him from biting critters and nagging insects.

Holding up the upper lip:  in stallions the term used is flehmen and of  course that is a hormonal arousal response to a mare.  All equines will roll the  upper lip in a response to a scent.  The scent could be from a tree or  plant pollinating in the spring, animal urine, manure, shavings, chemicals  and soap products.
Thanks for your email Sue.  Cindy K. Roberts


BITING MULE

My mule is 9yr old and I have had him for a little over 1 yr.  Based on the information I have, he had 2 previous homes and was treated very well. We have bonded well and he appears to be glad to see me when I walk toward his pasture.  We ride about 3 times per week.  He loves trails rides and never gets tired.  His training had been progressing very well (I take riding lessons once a week).  A few months ago, I was leading him to a large pasture to ride.  He does not like this pasture (one side backs up to woods and this seems to make him spook often).  He was very reluctant to walk and he kept stopping.  I got him walking again and with no warning he reached down and bit the outside of my right knee.  I screamed and threw my arm up, but did not hit him.  We continued to the pasture and rode without much event (he spooked a few times, but that is normal).  He has attempted to bite my knee since then, it seems to occur when I’m asking him to do something he does not want to do (he has even tried to bite my boot when I ask for a lope, he will still try to bite when being led even I’m just leading him around the riding ring).  My instructor has suggested doing ground work with him so he will learn to respect me.  We have been doing that for a few weeks, he learns very quickly and seems to have gotten bored with the ground work, he will sometimes make a half-hearted attempt to bite.  I have been using a stud chain under his chin when leading or doing ground work, when he tries to bite, I jerk the chain a few times.  He is still calm and gentle when I groom him, pet him, give him treats….during these times he has plenty of opportunity to bite, but he doesn’t even try.  Is it possible that biting has become his way of saying “I don’t want to do this” and how do I change this behavior?  He really is a good boy and I would like us to communicate better.  He has no medical problems and all his vet care is up to date.  My instructor said that his saddle and bit fit him well.  Thank you for any suggestions.  M Watson


Yes you are right...your mule is communicating his reluctance or insecurity through biting.  I would make sure that what ever the task is -- your mule should be schooled to that level to be able to do that task.  Your mule should have a relaxed frame of mind (and not be upset or frustrated) in order to move forward with what ever you are working on.  I would not use harsh or extreme measures to correct your mule at this point but I would suggest this:  make sure your mule gets enough play/relaxation time while working under saddle with you.  This will take the "pressure" off of him.  Also, reward him from doing things correctly.  Simply rub the crest of his neck and say "good boy" -- mules do better with praise and encouragement.  I would keep a short crop in my hip pocket -- have it ready just in case he attempts to nip or bite -- and you will know when that time comes.  He may have that look in his eye or you may just "feel" his disapproval -- be quick to respond with a smack on his side or rump -- one smack.  Do not strike him in the face. Then move on to something else.  Don't give him time to think about what happened -- just move on.  You are very attentive and thorough to check with your vet about possible health issues and to check with your instructor to make sure that you have correct saddle fit.  You have the right attitude and your mule is lucky to have you.  Thanks for your email -- best wishes Cindy K. Roberts  

DIFFICULT TO BRIDLE

I have a 7 year John mule I've had for 1 year.  Just trail rides.  Having problem with his head as far as putting a bridle on, fly mask NO WAY.  Halter is no problem.  Anything that goes over the head he starts thrashing his head around. Its not the ears because he loves his ears scratched. He freakin' knocked me down yesterday with his head. I lost my temper and punched him----now I feel I really lost the training.  My neighbor says he is testing me and winning because my neighbor can put on his bridle not much of a problem. I bought a new bridle that snaps behind his ears, and that worked for 3 weeks, then yesterday he started his acting up.  Any ideas?
 
JZ-Tucson,Arizona

 

JZ - I am wondering when the bridle problem began.  Was it a minor issue that got worse?  Does the bit fit correctly and comfortably in his mouth?  At this point, I would make up to the mule.  Mules do not like injustice and they are incredibly smart about this stuff.  You would do better to make over him, give him some treats while you are caressing his ears, face and poll area. Simply move slow and talk nice and he probably will warm up to you after a while.  After several days of playing "Who's your buddy?" you can attempt to bridle him again.  Don't fault him if he is head-shy, because you helped him to develop this habit.   Stuff treats in your pocket, hold the bridle with one hand and the bit with a treat in the other.  Do not raise the bridle.  Allow your mule to bring his head down to take the bit.  Only reward him with a treat once he takes the bit.  Be careful not to bump his mouth/teeth in any way.  You can start to slip the headstall over and then stop.  Start over again.  Have him reach for the bit, treat him while he takes the bit, and slip the headstall over him.  Reward him again after the bridle is on and praise him.  This will take some time and a bag of apple flavored horse nuggets -- they go crazy for that stuff.  There are pros and cons for using treats in your training program, but if used correctly it can be a positive training technique.   Good luck and thanks for your email.  Cindy K. Roberts


Mule will shy back and cower, almost quiver from raising hand.

Hi Cindy, I just received your DVD, hopefully it will help me with my mule.  I bought a four year old mammoth mule that has been out in a pasture for the past year.  We are making a lot of progress and I think we are bonding well.  I am starting at the beginning with his training and treating him as if he has never been rode.  He leads well, does not kick or bite, but I believe that he has been whipped at some point.  If I raise a hand, rope, brush, sack, etc... above his head or rump to fast he will shy back and cower, almost quiver.  I have worked sacking him out with various items and he does well, it is not the item that scares him as much as the raising it up as if you were going to strike him.  I have never hit him and never will.  If what I suspect is true, will he ever get over it?  He has bolted several times and broken away from me and I have been working on that, following the advice you gave another person on your website, and I believe we are making progress.  I appreciate your advice.
  Jeff Sweet Savoy, Texas


Hi Jeff,

Your mule has a had some time off and that is part of the issue. Work with your mule on a regular basis and develop that bond of trust that is needed.  Your mule will get better, however, you need to be very careful at this point to NOT MAKE MISTAKES.  Mistakes are:  walking up behind or near your mule without announcing your presence in a soothing reassuring way.  Waving arms or throwing rope will have to wait until you have had more quality time with your mule.  Mules that have been abused or got the wrong start in their life need to develop that trust with their handler first, then you can start working on training.  So for now...give up raising your arm or rope.  You can work with your young mule with other basics such as leading, standing, picking up his feet. Several weeks or months down the road you can attempt to work with his other issues and continue to go slowly with him.  Thanks for your email and keep in touch.  Cindy K. Roberts

P.S.  Your mule is young -- so I feel your mule has a good future with you if you take the time to train him to his time table.  Mules don't usually develop a strong sense of confidence until at least age 6. 


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