How to Buy a Mule – Interview the Seller Ask the Right Questions


When calling about a mule these are some questions that you will want to ask. If the seller tells you the mule has already been sold but he has another one in the barn lot that just might work for you, I would be skeptical. An unscrupulous seller can easily post a glamour photo of a mule (any mule) to entice potential buyers into calling. This is called the Bait and Switch. When inquiring about any mule, here are some questions to consider when interviewing the seller:

Phone Interviews With Sellers
First, be cordial to the seller and ask if now is a good time to talk about the mule being offered for sale. Remember, buying and selling a mule can be an emotional ordeal. The seller may be emotionally attached to the mule, there may be screaming children heard in the background, there may be a domestic issue that is forcing the sale of the mule; so don’t judge the seller when conducting your phone interview. If the seller gives you satisfactory answers to your questions, then arrange for the time to come out to look at the mule. If you are new to mules, you may want to let the seller know that you would like to see the mule being caught, groomed and saddled before you ride it. A hard to catch mule is not an easy issue to deal with for a new mule owner. However that never stopped me from buying a mule that didn’t want to be caught because I wrote the book on it! Training the Hard to Catch Mule.

When I bring a new mule home and he refuses to be caught, then the hunt is on. (wink.) I will catch that mule. It’s almost a personal thing with me because I am the most concerned and caring individual a mule could have for an owner. I make training fun for the mule and I easily connect with mules. And now you don’t want to hang out with me? Ha! The thrill is in the hunt! Like Dog the Bounty Hunter, I will bring in my mule.
These thought provoking questions should help you gather important info on the mule being offered for sale.

When calling about a mule these are some questions that you will want to ask. If the seller tells you the mule has already been sold but he has another one in the barn lot that just might work for you, I would be skeptical. An unscrupulous seller can easily post a glamour photo of a mule (any mule) to entice potential buyers into calling. This is called the Bait and Switch. When inquiring about any mule, here are some questions to consider when interviewing the seller:

Environment: Where is the mule kept? Is he kept in a pasture, stall or paddock? Is he used to being with other horses/mules? How does the mule rank in the pecking order? This is good Information to know. If you intend to purchase a mule and change his environment and/or social order, you need to be confident that it will work out for the animal. Has the mule been exposed to barbed wire or an electric fence? These are all important issues to consider for your new mule purchase. A new animal should be introduced into his new surroundings during daylight.

Activity level: Ask about his activity level. How long has the mule been “unemployed?” Mules need time to get back into a “schooling” frame of mind, which usually takes about three weeks. During that time, there will be a change to their “mindset.” Remember as a child, returning to school after a long summer? If you are a skilled rider, this will not be a problem for you.

Health history: Is he up to date on all shots, paste worming, teeth floating and are his feet kept up? Vaccinations should be given twice a year, in the spring and fall. When you see an ad that claims the animal is “up to date on shots, paste-worming” ask to see the schedule. Paste-worming schedules that are allowed to go past 8 weeks can cause health issues in the animal. Has the animal had any illness or injury that required veterinary attention? You need to know this to determine if there may be a potential ongoing problem. Ask for the medical history on the mule.

Job skills: What are the mule’s job skills? What can he do? (Cross water? Cross bridges? Ride safely and calmly around traffic? Load into the trailer? Stand quietly for the farrier? Come when he is called? Ride English/Western or Hunter/Jumper? Work cows? Trail ride with confidence alone or in a group? Stand tied quietly to the trailer? Is he traffic safe? Is he able to camp on a picket line? Does the mule hobble?) These are just a few things to think about when purchasing a mule.

Your expectations:
What do you want the mule to do? Is he suited for what you expect of him? How is the mule’s disposition? A mule that requires being safe and confident while riding on the trail, should have a quiet disposition that is not easily spooked or show signs of nervousness. A performance mule that is expected to have athletic ability and speed should possess those same qualities.

Age of the mule:
Does the seller have paperwork to back up the age of the mule? A qualified veterinarian can age a mule by overall physical examination. Actual breeder certificates will also endorse the physical age on the mule. Since mules are hybrids, they have longevity and their physical age cannot be compared to the horse. This is another factor where the mule has the advantage over the horse, if properly cared for he will be sound and may be in service until the day he dies.

Ownership:
How many owners has the mule had? Is he a “foster” mule going from home to home? Of course, the better your riding/training skills, this won’t be an
issue for you.

Interaction:
Does the mule dislike cows, dogs or goats? This may be a potential trail problem if you are not able to get the mule past this issue.

Diet:
What has been the mule’s diet? Pasture mules going to another part of the country may experience dietary issues. All of this makes a difference to the overall health of your animal. Even though the mule is an adaptable creature, you will want to meet his dietary needs.

Training:
What type of training did the mule really have? An ad claiming the mule has been trained for a skill or task can be verified. Ask for the trainer’s name and contact information. Does the mule have any awards or show history? Get proof for the amount and type of training the mule has.

Compatibility is the key to owning a mule that you can enjoy for many years to come. You have to be confident with the new mule you are about to purchase. You also should feel safe when riding him and when doing groundwork as well. Take time to get to know the mule, allow him to bond with you and your partnership will grow from there.

Time off: When was the last time the mule was ridden? Mules that have the best disposition in the world can be left alone for long periods of time and then brought back to service. Other mules may not be as so agreeable to coming back after a period of rest and relaxation.

Ask questions: Don’t hesitate to ask the seller a lot of questions. The seller knows if you are asking thought provoking questions, then you are a serious buyer. Keep in mind, the seller may not have the same skill level in training, riding or ownership of equines as you do; you will be wise to ask the necessary questions to give you a better understanding on the mule’s history. If you the buyer are lacking in confidence or an advanced skill set to training, riding and owning of mules, then take an experienced person that is qualified to assist you.

Size: You don’t want to purchase a mule that is too tall for you or one that is too short. Bone structure on a mule is equally important when shopping for a trail mule, pack mule or one to go to work. Make sure the mule is built for the job you expect him to do.

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Regain Your Confidence In the Saddle

Overcoming fear is something almost every equestrian face from time to time. Mules are large, potentially unpredictable and dangerous animals. But some riders, for a variety of reasons, struggle with fear and anxiety more than others. Few sports have as many dedicated participants who struggle with being afraid of their beloved, chosen equine partner. Fearful riders come in every age, gender, size and ability level. They include riders from every equestrian discipline and level of training. 

A round pen makes a great classroom for your mule.

I will put emphasis on the fact that equestrian sports are the number one rated in head injuries and death. Directly put, it is a dangerous sport and activity. To think that you will never encounter an injury during your riding career is not probable. Keep your risks to a minimum and think while your train to lower your chances of becoming injured. With that being said, you should realize the inherited risks involved with equestrian sports and take an active role in keeping fit while increasing your knowledge of the sport to minimize your risk.

Equestrian fears usually originate from two distinct sources: post-traumatic fear and generalized anxiety. Post-traumatic fear develops after experiencing or witnessing a traumatic incident or accident. Not every rider who is involved in or witnesses an equestrian accident will develop post-traumatic fear. Some riders seem to “bounce back” from devastating accidents with few long-term effects. More fearful, riders will struggle with crippling fears after a seemingly minor incident. I was raised in a family when after the fall, you got back on. Having that mindset, I developed horse and mule savvy skills that has brought a great amount of rewards to my life. If you are addicted to mules like I am, you will not be able to give it up.

Work with your mule through “thinking” exercises such as walking through tires.

How do we explain riders that have fears even though they have not been injured? Generalized anxiety develops in the “what if” section of the brain. No actual incident has occurred, but the fear is always of what might occur. What if my mule bolts and I cannot stop him? What if my mule spooks at a cow? What if a barking dog chases us on the trail? What if my mule bucks me off? The “what if” possibilities are endless and can be paralyzing.

Older adults have an increased awareness of their own mortality, and often must deal with stiffer, less flexible joints; bones that break more easily; increased body weight; decreased muscular strength; slower reflexes; a lower general level of fitness; and old or prior injuries. These physical realities may increase an already anxious rider’s fear level.

So, what is an anxious or fearful rider to do? First, be patient with yourself, learn to recognize and reward your progress. The steps to successfully overcoming fear are usually small and may feel painfully slow. There are no easy or simple answers to overcoming fear. But there is hope and success for those who are determined to conquer their fears.

 It will be beneficial to enlist your Equestrian Support Team. Fearful and anxious riders will rarely overcome their fears alone. The more support a fearful rider gathers, the more likely he/she is to successfully overcome his/her fears. Possible members of an Equestrian Support Team include: a supportive riding instructor or trainer; a sports psychologist or psychotherapist; a physician or other medical professional; experienced, confident mule friends and riding partners; a supportive spouse, partner or good friend; and friendly mule riding clubs and organizations. Some well-meaning riding instructors add to the problem by refusing to allow their students to talk about their fears. This is not the style of riding instructor I would recommend for a fearful rider, who needs to be able to talk about and verbally process his/her fears. A little empathy and understanding can go a long, long way.

Fear can create these responses: dry mouth, sweating, “butterflies” in the stomach, nausea, “rubbery” legs, shaking or trembling, chest pressure or pain, eyes looking down or losing focus, shortness of breath, “racing” thoughts, inability to focus or concentrate, and the fear of losing control. Now let’s work on this.

Timid, novice and fearful riders should always wear a helmet. Every time, every ride. You never “forget” the girth, do you? Then there is no excuse for “forgetting” a helmet. No matter which equestrian discipline or activity you are participating in, a properly fitted, ASTM/SEI-approved equestrian helmet is the single most important piece of personal safety equipment available today. A helmet may save your life and your future in the event of a fall or serious accident. Knowing your wonderful, unique brain is well protected will give you one less thing to worry about when you ride.

Learn visualization and imaging techniques. Invest in CDs and DVDs that have information about mental imagery and visualization for equestrians. Listen to them when you drive to work or the barn to help you develop imaging skills that will minimize your fears. Visualization and imaging skills require time, practice and disciplined thinking, in order to be effective.

Improve your riding skills. Most fearful riders benefit tremendously from taking additional riding lessons on the basics of riding an older well trained mule. These lessons should be with a patient, caring instructor who enjoys working with timid adults. Lessons on the basic mechanics of riding and controlling a mule, balance, and understanding a mule’s movement will help a fearful rider to relax and feel more in control in the saddle. Ideally, these lessons should take place on a calm “schoolmaster” type mule.

Improve your fitness level. Start with abdominal strength. The abdominal and oblique muscles control your position in the saddle and help you to stay with your mule when he turns quickly. Strong abs make you a stronger rider. Increasing your over-all fitness, strength and flexibility will usually increase a rider’s self-confidence in the saddle.

Look and act like a confident rider, even if you do not feel like one. It is easier to act your way into a new way of feeling than to feel your way into a new way of acting. The physical positions of keeping your eyes up, chin up, and smiling send signals to your brain that you are in control and confident, even if you do not feel that way emotionally. Look and act like you are confident and eventually you will feel that way.

Evaluate the mule you own or usually ride. Are you a good match for each other? Many fearful riders are riding mules they should not be riding. They are over-mounted and intuitively know that, but do not know how to change the situation. If you are not sure whether you and your mule are a good match, enlist the aid of a knowledgeable equine professional to help you. A professional opinion may give you the courage to overcome your fears and work successfully with your current mount or the courage to say good-bye and find a more suitable mount to help you achieve your equestrian goals and find the fun again.

Participating in a riding clinic or equine seminar will boost your confidence.

Make a plan. The most effective plans will usually involve regular riding lessons or instruction, sessions with a sports psychologist or psychotherapist who is experienced with equestrian issues, and mobilizing your entire Equestrian Support Team. Clinics specifically designed to help riders overcome fear issues can be particularly effective in helping fearful riders to get back on the “fun” track again.

In summary, there is hope and help available for anxious riders who want to overcome their fears. Successfully overcoming the fear of riding and becoming a confident rider most often occurs when a strong Equestrian Support Team is enlisted and utilized with a thoughtful, realistic plan is in place. Here’s to your future as a confident rider and a leader in your mule’s life!

How to Work with Mules Being Unresponsive to the Bit: Learn the Causes of Anxiety and How to Modify It

Mules having a different mindset, need a training program designed with logical and sequential training techniques in mind. Having proper fitted tack should be used, as comfort is everything to the mule.

  • Aggressive and harsh methods do not work favorably for the mule.
  • Learn about the different bits that are available; by using educated hands and working with your mule through the levels of training your mule will be you partner.
  • Learn the symptoms of anxiety and how to modify it.
  • This book is an introduction to the Whoa Mule Bit (lariat noseband) that works well with mules that have dental issues, a nervous mouth, abused mouths that won’t respond to having a bit in their mouth.
  • This is free with the Whoa Mule Bit (lariat noseband) purchase. 107 pages.

Available at Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/How-Work-Mules-Being-Unresponsive/dp/B0GZG9148R/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3NZX4O2837PJY&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4oq6JVQ7KBf8bQh5jhLh1n5qiZAHvefRMue4tE3NA4golh80-UO2Xu9rcVq_nhEcQU6DVb9YfpS7IWVK4zdeV9cG63cpqa43QMEc4d8YxjW363H-w_C8pSoA9IUt4QhBZ_MXnMSZFNcDcEVjaOh1dKTFzdTZ-7HUylmwIatL3EdVqF49zNOPNDneuSMWZFd703gT39Jujwnk_CVBfTRfziWUm02-Izft-hV6kkU7-pA._Om3sWAwcN4dEr_bPOGFFH5X6dz-V5wsxM3ktr_IlmA&dib_tag=se&keywords=How+to+Work+with+Mules+Being+Unresponsive+to+the+Bit&nsdOptOutParam=true&qid=1778075844&s=books&sprefix=how+to+work+with+mules+being+unresponsive+to+the+bit%2Cstripbooks%2C151&sr=1-1

Cindy K. Roberts Unveils Mule Talk Podcast Milestone

Mule Talk podcast is being inducted into the LTR Mule Museum in Colorado! Wax figures of host, Cindy K Roberts (right) and content contributor, Meredith Hodges (left) are now complete. Episodes of Mule Talk will play in the background, with books authored by Cindy K. Roberts and Meredith Hodges being offered for sale. Mules in the military and more to be included!

Cindy K. Roberts started the show in 2019, interviewing trainers, farriers, mule enthusiasts, ranchers, and sassy characters with mule backgrounds to their resume. Mule Talk podcast is on IHeart radio or wherever you download your podcast. Mule Talk podcast is an Every Cowgirl’s Dream Production. Visit Mule Talk at https://www.MuleTalk.Net.

Training the Hard-to-Catch Mule

A Logical Approach on How to Connect With Your Mule

A sensible and logical approach to connect with your mule. How to form an equine partnership, and how to bond with your mule. The book covers how a mule sees, hears, smells, and feels sensations in his world; learn what drives him to be the cautious animal that he is. Learn how to read your mule, proper approach, and gentling your mule; strengthen your partnership. Excellent training techniques for mule handlers.

  • Learn the physiological aspects of the mule
  • Earning your mule’s trust
  • Teaching your mule to come to you
  • The halter and how to use it.
  • Listen to your mule
  • Get your mule to focus on you
  • The reward system and how it works
  • Develop a lasting partnership with your mule

Available on Amazon – Training the Hard-to-Catch Mule 5th Edition: A Logical Approach on How to Connect with Your Mule: Roberts, Cindy K: 9798249968519: Amazon.com: Books

The Desperados Cookbook & Guide to Common Sense

The Desperados Cookbook & Guide to Common Sense
Desperados Cookbook

The Desperados Cookbook & Guide to Common Sense: Recipes and Protocol for the Modern-Day Saddle Tramp 

by Cindy K Roberts (Author), Meredith Hodges (Contributor)


The Desperados Cookbook & Guide To Common Sense – Recipes and Protocol For The Modern-Day Saddle TrampHome-cooking at its best!

  • Recipes for saddle tramps that are on the go.
  • Comfort food for trail riders and their gang.
  • Breakfast, Texas style.
  • Cocktail recipes, casseroles, and baking tips for the beginner cook.
  • Chuckwagon rules, ranching history, recipes from outlaws of yesteryear, and some that are “wanted” today.

Social graces on how NOT to take the bait from the in-laws. (wink.) Includes: How saloons and taverns were discovered…and how to handle rudeness. This is the book for you!

  • The art of romance and how to go courtin’
  • How to handle the in-laws
  • How to handle the busybody
  • Lady Rhinestone’s advice on gossip
  • Kick-butt advice on how to handle obnoxious relatives
  • This and more nonsense to live by.

Available at Amazon Prime – The Desperados Cookbook & Guide to Common Sense: Recipes and Protocol for the Modern-Day Saddle Tramp: Roberts, Cindy K, Hodges, Meredith: 9798243898935: Amazon.com: Books

Goat Cheese the Mule Goes to Court

Satire straight from the farm to the courtroom! The first book in this series: A young mule grows up on a farm with his elderly master and donkey friend, named Harold. When the aged owner can no longer care for his animals, they are turned over to the Humane Society. Not having any schooling, the mule and donkey are introduced to a training program, and then they come up for adoption. Goat Cheese, the mule teaches children about being kind, how to be a good friend, to love everyone, and to help each other. Goat Cheese also teaches children that cigarettes are bad for you, not to drink, and to say no to drugs. This book is to bring awareness to children about animals having feelings and to always be kind.

Book 2, Goat Cheese heads south to the border…Arkansas. Goat Cheese attended Boot Camp for mules. This is where unruly mules go to get a hard core training session that will train them into being productive citizens. Goat Cheese got a lot of social media attention, and women were flaunting themselves by sending love letters and cards to Goat Cheese. Goat Cheese now has a following…

Book 3 shares the challenges that Goat Cheese went through to emancipate himself and to be able to go home to a real family. Grouch tested, guaranteed to tickle your funny bone. Available on Amazon Goat Cheese the Mule Goes to Court: Justice Is Due: Roberts, Cindy K, Smith, Stacie: 9798243900539: Amazon.com: Books Published by Every Cowgirl’s Dream.

Pasteworming/Giving Oral Meds the Easy Way

I have a couple of mules that detest being paste-wormed; yet another mule loves it so much she will devour the entire tube, including the syringe, if allowed. Keep in mind, I’ve been doing this for over 50 years; this is what works.

Mules that are sour on being paste-wormed is partly due to having a syringe shoved into their mouth, the icky taste, and there was no reward offered. The handler may be nervous and that makes it more difficult.

Simply play the finger game with your mule. Apply molasses or apple sauce to your finger and slide it into the corner of your mule’s mouth. Do not rush this, give him time to think about it. Since mules are individuals, one mule may prefer apple sauce or jelly, and another mule may prefer molasses or just corn oil on your finger.

Next, reward your mule for being cooperative in the finger game. Let him nibble oats out of your hand. Mules will come off the pasture for oats.

Now that your mule is quiet and ready, keep a small cup of oats ready to use as a reward. Simply, slide your “juicy” finger into the mule’s cheek, shoot the paste and slide the syringe out WHILE messaging his throat latch to encourage swallowing the paste. If you allow the mule to open his mouth, he will opt to spit out the paste wormer. After swallowing, offer the oats, or apple sauce, as a reward and keep messaging your mule and telling him how good he is.

When grooming your mule, keep things positive by offering a handful of oats for him to nibble from your hand.

Developing Good Habits

Mule Memo: Developing good habits. The median amount of time for humans to develop a good habit is 66 days. A mule? Let’s just say the mule has a head start when it comes to developing a habit, whether it is good or bad. That’s why you want to focus on good ground manners so your animal is safe to be around. One habit in particular is: when stepping up into the saddle, make sure your mule is ok with this and not feeling anxious. Sometimes it may take a few seconds to squeeze the crest of his mane to reassure him that everything is fine. The mule’s mother (the horse mare) did this very thing by massaging the young mule’s crest on top of his neck. In equine language, this means “I’m here, and everything’s OK.” Once you are in the saddle, sit back and relax. Don’t take off – or in a couple of weeks, your mule will take advantage of knowing what comes next, and he will charge out down the trail. Even though you didn’t encourage him to bolt out (or did you?), a level-headed mule waits for his handler’s signal or request. Some riders like to ride their mules as though they are on a NASCAR track, and others like to mozey along. I like for my mules to have good manners and still be able to giddyup when needed without developing anxiety. I hope this helps. If you need assistance, you know where to find me.

More Adventures of Goat Cheese the Mule – Heading South to the Border

More Adventures of Goat Cheese the Mule – Heading South to the Border continues the life story of Goat Cheese the mule. Having flunked the 3rd grade, Goat Cheese was a challenge to work with. Previous horse trainers that worked with Goat Cheese weren’t able to get him to a higher level of schooling. Now, Goat Cheese is going to a trainer “south of the border” in Arkansas to learn good manners. Good manners is essential so that a mule is safe to be around, to work with, to ride, and handle. Embellished with humor, this book shows a comical side to the mule’s way of thinking. They are mischievous, fun to be with, and they will keep you on your feet. Goat Cheese has a social life and many followers on social media. Available on Amazon.

More Adventures of Goat Cheese the Mule: Heading South to the Border: Roberts, Cindy K: 9798275629927: Amazon.com: Books